Diaries

Planning for the Future: 3 things I hope to achieve

Carla has been out in the world since April 2016, when I put up my first ad. However, I did have previous experience in the world of escorting, having got through both my first degrees with income from this demi-monde. Now in my seventh year of private companionship as Carla, I have been reflecting on what else I would like

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Top 5 Reasons People become Sex Workers

Ok, I know what you are all thinking.  Money. Money. Money. Money. Money.  Guess what?  You’re wrong.  Sure the money is important (would you work for no pay?) but it’s not the be all and end all. 1. Money.  As above.  It is important just like your pay check is, but not everything. 2. Flexibility.  Many workers entered the industry as they

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Seizing the Moment: What’s on your bucket list?

The world today A pandemic, climate change…the world we live in has been going through a lot the last couple of years and who knows when this turbulent time will end. It reminds me to enjoy the moment and really get focused on joyful things I can plan in the short to medium turn, rather than only think about long-term

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Seeing an escort for the first time? 7 pieces of advice for you.

I have some advice for newbies to the world of private companionship.  This should make your first experience more enjoyable for you and your escort. 1) Have a look for your person of choice on one of the more reputable advertising boards.  Ivy Société is one I recommend and Scarlet Blue is usually at the top of search engine results.  Avoid

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A tricky topic – falling in love at work

I was asked by a married couple I saw recently if I’d ever fallen in love with a client.  It’s not something I think about often, although I’ve had some interesting conversations with peers on this very topic. I do become attached to people I see regularly and when for whatever reason we haven’t been able to catch-up *curses Covid

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Authentic connections and longer dates

I get asked quite a lot why I only take a handful of dates each month and why no short bookings. There are a few reasons ranging from pragmatic to personal preference.The practical ones include getting ready once for a four hour booking, rather than the preparation required times to go to one hour dates, on four occasions.   It takes

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